Tuesday, March 5, 2019

A Difficult Decision

Decision making is one of the hardest things a clement being can do for themselves. The decisions populate puddle, they do to either emend themselves or worsen themselves. Decision making could be what college someones going to or making a big change in their lives like moving. Others would betray a large(p) decision, whether its ignoring good advice or going as far as doing drugs. Some people would make decisions because of the situation there in and is an impulse decision, but sometimes it turns bring give a way good.Decision MakingFor four and a half years, I thought my render was in truth starting to change, but, in reality I misled myself into believing something that wasnt true. I was a responsible student, worked and thought everything was going well and where I precious it to be. The last few months that I lived with my mother and step-father, everything went spiraling into complete and gibe chaos. The last week, was the worst and best thing that has ever happened for me, and also the intimately difficult decision of my life. The start of everythingIn July of 2013, my life started to spiral bulge out of control, I just graduated high school and was looking for work consistently. My mother insisted that I pay rent, every week until I could find my concentrate send out to live at first I didnt judgement that, I just needed to find a job and fast. I luckily found a job a month later, I was doing very well there and then I got second job. I wasnt making that much property and my mom kept imperativeness that the rent Im supposed to pay, is more than the last time.I simply made the amount she wanted me to pay a week, so I tried to find other things I could possibly do to make more money I was out of luck. My mom and I started to wall a lot over the littlest things. I was trying to get myself out of that syndicate as soon as possible, the living conditions were very bad no matter what I wouldtry to do, no food, filthy house. I was never ho me to do any of the cleaning because I was ever so at work or on my spare time collide with the people I really care closely but, it started to get worse.Getting worseAs the months started to ottoman on bye, my living situation became increasingly worse. I had found out that my mother and her husband were doing drugs. I really didnt appreciate the way they used me and thought I was stupid enough to believe they werent doing anything. They started accusing me of stealing things, and doing things that I never even thought about doing. One day my mother called the natural law on me and she had told the police officeholder that I had attacked her. This was the most hurtful thing imaginable, my own mother, calling the police on me.What happened was, I wanted the money I had lent to her behind ($50), I needed the money for some food, she kept resisting giving me my money back I saw the money laying on the counter, so I went and got it and she, repeatedly kicked me in the stomach an d bit me. Never once, would I ever put a hand on my mother. Im really glad I had people in my life that would take care of me whenever I needed a helping hand.The constructive evictionThe last week that I saw my mother was the day I received an eviction notice from her, right ahead Christmas. I was very hurt and I had no idea what to do, Ive never been in this situation before I was scared. She said that I didnt do anything around the house to help, so I had to go. I Know why she evicted me and I foretaste that someday that she will get the help that she needs. A couple of old age after I had received the eviction notice, I found a place to live. It was not an easy move, but it was the best choice I have ever made. On December 7, 2013 I said my nett goodbyes to my mother and have not seen or mumbled a single banter to her, since that day.Where I wentPeople, who Im not even related to, treat me just like their family. I call her my aunt Tonya she has been sheltering me since th at day. She offered me a place to stay, and I took the offer. The difficult decision was that I had to move an hour and a half away, from my family and friends. They all understood, and want me to succeed in life, and show people I will make something of myself and prove the people that told me I couldnt wrong. Now,Im focusing better on school, and plan to succeed.

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